Fix queuing of DETACH msg

[sacOO7]

• DETACH msg shouldn't be queued, rather should be sent on CONNECTED.
• Also, spec doesn't mention any retry mechanism for DETACH msg once sent, but if failed, channel state should transition back to previous state.
• https://sdk.ably.com/builds/ably/specification/main/features/#RTL5

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