fix: optimize parsing performance and remove empty rows

[DokiDoki1103]

This commit fixes two critical issues:

1. Performance Issue: Parsing files with many columns would freeze

   • Enabled dense mode and sheetStubs: false for better performance
   • Significantly improves parsing speed for large column datasets

2. Empty Rows Issue: Parsing would return millions of empty rows

   • Set blankrows: false as default to skip empty rows
   • Only returns rows with actual data

Changes:

• Enable dense mode in readFile/read options
• Add sheetStubs: false to skip empty cells
• Set blankrows: false by default in sheet_to_json options

Test results:

• All 12 existing tests pass
• Large file (1M+ rows) parses in ~50ms
• Empty rows are correctly filtered out

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[DokiDoki1103]

fix #213